This Friday Amanda and I celebrate our 10th wedding anniversary. It took us a bit but we eventually decided we should go on a trip and to somewhere neither of us had been before. I've always wanted to see ancient ruins and love Starwars. Enter Tikal, one of the most famous Mayan sites and home to the rebel alliance's Yavin 4 base. I don't travel much. I don't like traveling much. I don't even like thinking about travelling. It’s not that I don't want to see exotic places and do interesting things around the world. I just don't want to deal with any of the headache of getting there or any of the less than desireable things I might encounter along the way. I'm pretty good at negative visualization, what some people probably call worrying. I’ll call it being prepared, though it still feels an awful lot like worrying. I guess it's how I deal with the unknown. I can't predict the future but I can take what I know and thin...